Attention: Progressive individuals, coaches, and therapists
who want to create unlimited resourcefulness and get rid of behaviors that hold you back
for yourself and your clients
in just ONE session.
Decipher the Emotional Code
Erase limiting habits, dissolve stress, channel fear, and
uncover your Inner Power
(in a way you've never seen before).
Yes you CAN (finally) get rid of fear, worry, doubt (ALL those "negative emotions" that make you miserable) and allow your authentic brilliance to shine through. I'll show you how to do this for yourself (and if you're a coach, for your clients)
In truth you already know most of what you need to do to
create the results you want in your life.
WE ALL DO!
Then why don't we do it?
The billion dollar questions, and ones most frequently asked by our clients:
“Why don’t I consistently do what I know?”
and
“How can I consistently do what I know?”
The answer to these 2 questions is both self empowering and life altering.
Let's tackle the WHY question here and now!
"Why don't I consistently do what I know?"
Because the things that keep you from doing what you know are habits that, when triggered, operate automatically. These habits (physical, emotional & mental) meet some inherent need so they persist and will persist until that need is met to a greater degree (not necessarily in a healthier way).
Whenever some thought is given to available options and the choice made is still an action that takes you away from what you really want, it’s likely that the need the behavior is satisfying in the moment is stronger and/or more immediate than the need the goal is designed to fulfill.
Your conditioned behavior patterns form a matrix of energy and emotion, the emMatrix, which determine direction for your life!
Perhaps this metaphor can help explain it:
When swimming in the ocean you may see signs or be given caution to: BEWARE OF UNDERTOW.
An undertow is a strong subsurface flow of water returning seaward from the shore, often as a result of wave action. The ocean appears calm, yet there is a current beneath the surface, an unseen force that can drag you under and out to sea, away from reachable ground. When in the clutches of the undertow swimming becomes a struggle to stay afloat and get back to safety.
Most of your emMatrix supports you in getting what you want. But sometimes wave action (situations and circumstances) stimulates a subsurface flow (negative behaviors and uncomfortable emotions) that drags you off course, away from what you really want.
Deep down you know if you can control or eliminate those emotions and behaviors that drag you down you will have the life you want.
Second question:
“How can I consistently do what I know?”
Change the matrix. Remove or restructure the patterns that create an undertow. Any pattern, once completely identified and decoded, can be altered to create an even more empowering benefit. Change is now effortless because transformation has occurred.
Here's a free audio session to help you get started.
From the desk of Deborah Battersby
Developer of the emMatrix™ Coaching System
Friday, June 11, 2010
Dear Friend,
It's no accident you're reading this page. You're clearly someone who's ready to conquer and eliminate the unseen forces of the undertow -- the part of your emMatrix that is dragging you off course and keeping you from YOUR NEXT LEVEL OF SUCCESS.
Do you ever get dragged under by . . .
. . . feelings of daily struggle to overcome the challenges in front of you and the mounting sense of oerwhelm that comes with them.
. . . loss of enthusiasm, disconnection from your passion, purpose or power.
. . . financial worries that consume your focus and you find yourself getting short and testy with the ones who mean the most to you, family and friends.
. . . shattered trust and peace of mind ...gone from all the economic and global upheaval you see and hear about daily -- only now it's closer to home -- maybe REAL close?
. . . frustration in launching a business, finding the love of your life, losing some weight or simply speaking up at work, but you find yourself falling back into all the old self-destructive thoughts that you're not good enough, skilled enough or deserving enough (and you obsess over why you can't get rid of these horrible thoughts that have haunted you since childhood).
. . . falling back into old destructive thoughts that you're not good enough, skilled enough or deserving enough (obsessing over why you can't get rid of these horrible thoughts that have haunted you since childhood).
. . . anger, self-pity, or guilt when someone hits your "hot buttons" and you blow up at them or stuff your feelings deep inside and creating more stress for yourself.
. . . the sense you should be doing more, succeeding more and accomplishing more. Feeling nothing you do is ever enough (you sometimes shut down - you vegetate, you drink too much, you overeat . . . and then feel even worse.)
Why can't you stop the undertow? I'm here to tell you : YOU CAN!
So what does all this come down to? It all comes down to one shocking truth - THERE IS NO SUCH THING AS A NEGATIVE EMOTION.
Wait! I can hear you saying "You're crazy lady! You can't tell me that fear and anxiety and apathy and guilt and anger aren't negative emotions!"
I know! I know! We've all believed for all of our lives that we want to avoid so-called "negative emotions". We want to bury them, stuff them, not talk about them and pretend they aren't even there. And what has that done for us? That's right - it's created an UNDERTOW: stress, physical problems, outbursts that damage relationships and HELD US BACK FROM EXPERIENCING OUR TRUE AND RIGHTFUL INNER POWER AND JOY.
It was a feeling of magic.
Since learning the emMatrix™ System I have a completely different way of feeling.
A new power has arisen within me.
Alexander Actor/Voice Coach
Consider this: All of our emotions (negative and otherwise) come to serve us. Every negative emotion is actually meant to HELP us live more fulfilling and meaningful lives.
Is your head spinning after hearing that radical concept?
Let me explain:
1. You don't have to dread your negative feelings. In fact, you can learn to welcome them - YES WELCOME THEM - and be excited when they appear. (This is the key: We have to stop looking at all the things that are in the way of what we want as the enemy. They are only messengers of information that we haven't been able to receive yet.)
2. You can learn how to accept your "negative emotions" and appreciate the gift that every "negative emotion" brings. In fact, once you know what questions to ask your negative emotions in order to get at the information that they bring (their gift) you can get to the point where feeling "bad" will cause you to feel good!
3. Learning this system is the difference between a life of joy and a life of turmoil. Once you start using this system - I call it the emMatrix™ System - your world opens up in ways you can't even imagine! Guilt is gone; anger melts away, self-doubt vanishes and peace, power and inner confidence step forward to claim their rightful place in your life.
4. You can dissolve old habits and create new ones that release the floodgates of joy. Once you learn the emMatrix™ System, and understand its power and simplicity, you'll be possessed of an indescribable serenity allowing you to face whatever life brings your way with joy and inner confidence.
Unbelievable heart and unbelievable caring.
Deb has the skill to create incredible transformations!
Joe Williams, Steve Linder, and Others Discuss Debbie's Transformative Skills
Okay - sounds good right? But you're probably thinking "who the heck is this lady and why should I listen to her?"
Good! You should be skeptical.
Let me tell you a little bit about how I discovered this radical idea and how I know it's true.
One day, about 10 years ago, I was in a small car accident. Minor damages; no injuries. A few hours later, the right side of my body went into spasms, including my brain. It lasted for some time, but I have no idea how long.
The next day while driving, I could see things differently. When something came into my visual field I KNEW instantly where it was going, without consciously thinking about it.
Ecstatic, I called my hubby and told him of my miraculous discovery. He laughed and said, “Uh - honey - most people call that defensive driving!" Harrumph! I wasn't convinced yet.
Two days later I was a team leader for a personal development seminar (you see I'm a Master Practitioner in the field of neurolinguistics and neuro-associative conditioning, and an elite Robbins Research International Master Trainer - yes THAT Robbins).
A few hours into the program, I began to see emotional patterns unfold before my very eyes. It was that seeing and knowing thing again with no thought in between. I watched unmet expectation skip to disappointment, hurt, sadness and then resentment, like a stone skipping across the surface of a pond. For 3 days I watched this.
My years of training and experience started to kick into high gear. And I thought, if I can see an emotional path from beginning to end, could I possibly retrace it from end to beginning? And once I was at the beginning, could I neutralize it or redirect it and thus change the ending?
Sorta "woo woo" huh? But stick with me here!
I began testing this hypothesis out on friends, family members, anyone who was willing to be a guinea pig.
And I tried every way to Sunday to prove my theory wrong, only for it to continue to show me again and again that it is absolutely true!
Within 6 weeks I had developed a specific process for eliminating the emotions that get in the way of what we want to do, be or have in life.
I was thrilled! And since then, I've spent close to 10 years field-testing, researching and tweaking the system into what is now known as the emMatrix™ System. The most wonderful part is that people from all over the world, in testimonial after testimonial, report that the results are astounding.
And these same life-altering outcomes have been reported by other practitioners trained to take clients through the emMatrix™ process.
That's why I'm so excited about this emMatrix™ Coaching Certification program!
You see. If you're a coach, a therapist or simply a progressive individual (the kind who's always seeking higher and higher methods and processes for self-realization and self-actualization) you're going to be blown away by the results you can achieve for your clients, friends, family members and for YOURSELF by using the emMatrix™ System!
Absolutely life altering.
Powerful stuff!
Helps you to lead with your heart.
Deb is outstanding!
Cory, Mike, Jenn, David, Alba & Matt Previous emMatrix™ Certification Attendees
So now you may be wondering:
How does all this work? When and where is this certification program?
This sounds fantastic Deb, so how much is it all going to cost me?
Ah, good question. And before I answer I have one for you to consider . . .
How much are your "negative emotions" costing you every day? In terms of your relationships, your career, your business, your family and your relationship with yourself?
How much will they continue to cost you - day in and day out - if you don't discover the gift your negative emotions are trying to give you?
I bet you don't even know. (You may not even want to think about it!)
The emMatrix™ System will turn your opinion of "negative emotions" upside down. You'll learn how to say "thank you" to your "negative emotions" (like fear, frustration, anger, overwhelm, inadequacy . . .), learn from them, release them and replace them with confidence, peace, and plain old "feeling good".
Imagine how dramatically more effective you could be in your family relationships and your career if you could turn your anger, self-doubt, frustration and overwhelm into peace, self-assurance, and confident ability. (Do you think your spouse, your kids and your boss might notice? Ah - yeah!)
Once you're emMatrix™ Certified, you have a juggernaut of a tool that you can use for the rest of your life. Do you think investing $697 in a system like that is a ridiculously low risk / high return investment or not?
Plus, you're protected by my 100% Guarantee.
I stand firmly and proudly behind this system and I KNOW it has the potential to transform your life.
But, just in case you don't agree, you have until day 2 of the training to decide if this is for you. Just let me know during the lunch break of day 2 if you don't want to continue and I'll refund your investment.
Deb is fabulous! This process is a must for everybody!
You feel so free - so much like yourself - afterwards!
Dr. Connie Dean of Coaching
Baron University
The bottom line is that checking in with my feelings, however informally, has already become a habit. Thank you for reminding me that this habit will yield cumulative lifetime effects.
The world needs more Deb Battersbys!
KEEP ON MAKING IT OUTSTANDING!
Matt Cresser Newark, NJ
Ready to get started? Or do you still have a few questions?
Q: I'm a life coach and have a certain system I already use with my clients. Can I integrate the emMatrix™ System into my existing program? A: Absolutely. The emMatrix™ System will become one of the best tools in your toolbox for creating immediate and long-lasting results for your clients. It can easily be weaved into whatever process you're currently using. I personally use the emMatrix™ system as a starting point for my coaching clients. When they are able to clear away the emotions that have slowed/halted their progress in some area we can quickly make giant strides in achieving their goals.
Q: Will the emMatrix™ System help me with business problems - or is it just for personal use? A: As I'm sure you already well know, you are the key to your business success. What empowers or disempowers you, powers your business - for better or worse. What kind of impact would it have to eliminate fears: fear of rejection, fear of success, fear of failure, fear of losing what you've built, fear of things beyond your control, fear of being wrong, etc, etc, etc? How about reducing stress, anger, frustration? How much more productive and resourceful would you be for both your business and your life?
Q: I've tried lots of self-help books, coaching programs and seminars. None of them seem to create lasting change in me or my situation. Why would the emMatrix™ System be any different? A: This system is different because it gives you more than information, it gives you the actual experince of the work and a proven formula to duplicate the process on your own or to help someone else create the changes they desire.
Q: I'm doing okay with my life. Sure I could always do better - but how much could emMatrix™ really help someone like me? A: If you're reading this letter you know that you have frequently glimpsed your greater power and potential. emMatrix™ is designed to help you tap that power consistently and easily.
You get to set whatever limits you want for your life or you can blow the lid off if you want to.
So let's get started!
Yes Deb! I want to learn how to
transform "negative emotions" and allow my authentic brilliance to shine through by
using the emMatrix™ System!
For my discounted investment of $697 (regular price $1,297), I understand I'm going to get:
- 3-Day emMatrix™ Certification Program with Deborah Battersby (Class size limited to 15 - enroll now)
Customized coaching and training throughout the 3-days (I know Deb will refuse to let me leave until I've personally mastered the process.)
The opportunity to experience the life-changing emMatrix™ System as a coachee and as a coach with Deb as my guide
The 65+ page emMatrix™ Workbook and the emMatrix™ Session Journal
Worksheets, samples and templates to allow me to use the emMatrix™ System at home
And I'm completely covered by the emMatrix™ Guarantee,
where I have until lunch on the 2nd day to get my money back.
EARLY BIRD CELEBRATION!!! Enroll by June 25, 2010 and save nearly 50%
Class Size is Limited to 15
Complete 3-Day emMatrix™ Certification Program (Hawaii) Just $697
Save $600 off the regular price of $1,297
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The transformation of your "negative emotions" is just a few weeks away!
I Believe in You!
P.S. If you've ever struggled with your own "negative emotions" I urge you to invest in this training. You're going to learn a completely new way of handling your emotions - a way that creates peace and power and puts a stop to the years of "feeling bad". Click here to reserve your seat now.
P.P.S. Remember, seating is limited (15 max). And, for a brief time, in celebration of our first course in Hawaii tuition is only $697 savings of $600 from the usual $1297) for those who register by June 25th. Better grab it now.
From the desk of Deborah Battersby
Once you're emMatrix™ Certified, you have a juggernaut of a tool that you can use for the rest of your life. Do you think investing $697 in a system like that is a ridiculously low risk / high return investment or not?
Yes Deb! I want to learn how to